Don't let girls abuse you but be useful!

In my last post about how to get intimate with women on the web, I was telling what men do wrong. Today, I want to talk about what women do wrong as well as the fact that there is still hope.

I should agree on the fact that not all women are angels. Well, we are neither angel nor evil. This holds valid for both men and women.

Some women tend to use men and some men like to be abused by women. And then there are other men, who just don't get that they are being used.

On one hand, we want men that are just useful and there is nothing wrong with that. That doesn't mean we are here to use you. It just means that we need men. It is out of this need that we use men, not out of an evil habit to abuse people. By being useful, I mean things that are easy for men to do but not that easy for women to do. Doing some of the house chores like repairs is not something many girls are talented at. Men are more talented in this. Carrying heavy weight while shopping is not something a girl can handle easily but for men, this is easier.

On the other hand, there are women who are accustomed to use men for other things, especially emotional benefits. Unfortunately, I have seen many women who abuse men emotionally just to please themselves. My word is simple: stay away from those women who tend to abuse you emotionally.

A girlfriend who wants you to repair something at her home or carry some bags for her is not abusing you. She just honestly needs that. However, a girlfriend who does not remember birthday and tends to engage in a heavy discussion with you when you don't remember hers is committing emotional abuse. This simply means that she doesn't love herself and seeks this necessary self-love in other places instead of looking inside.

In a healthy relationship, people "use" each other practically (not emotionally) and that's pretty normal and a good thing too. When it comes to emotional abuse, that's calling for disaster for both sides.

How would you turn this knowledge into an advantage?

When you like a woman or you are in love with a woman, try to be useful for her. This will build intimacy and trust. With some experience, you will easily understand whether she wants to abuse you emotionally or not. You can check that. I'll try to give more examples on that if you wish.

So, I think that's sufficient for a weekend :) ... and coming soon: how to create a romantic environment in any place any time!