How to get intimate with women on the web?

Nowadays, I hang out on Social Me, a wonderful application where you tag people. I am having a great time and having new friends. However, I decided to note some of the things that men do wrong. I am hopeful to be helpful :)

Well, when you hang out on a place like Social Me, obviously you are up for some social interaction. That includes messaging and flirting. And that's it. Of course there can be real life arrangements out of this, but if you can't handle it online, how can you handle it in real life. So, here are a couple of key points I want to present.

Asking for msn and webcam immediately

Why would anybody do that in the first place? Are you that desperate? And believe me, in fact there is no difference when a woman gives you her msn address immediately and opens her webcam and you see any video over the web. That's not intimacy, and your pleasure also depends on intimacy exactly like women.

Moreover, women need security while it comes to contact. It doesn't feel secure to ask for an msn address and webcam immediately after having said hello. Think about that.

Asking too much questions and waiting immediate answers

That's another big problem. Anybody surfing the net is distributing her time accross more than one window. Apart from that, we have also daily routines like standing up, going to kitchen, taking a coffee and coming back in front of the computer. These take time. So, when you ask a stupid question and wait for an immediate answer, that's just waste of time. You claim that you want to know more about this woman but in fact you just need affection. You seek affection in immediate answers to your silly questions. That's desperate. Instead, keep cool and wait. Do something else.

Trying to create reasons for adding somebody in your facebook friendslist.

Don't be shy and don't think you need hundreds of reasons to contact a girl. Be plain.

Putting your appearance forth instead of your mind and soul

That's another big problem. Women are not as much attached to physical beauty as men are. Emphasize your knowledge, passion, credibility. Your look is not as important as you think. Who our are and your mind and your soul is more important. Your pleasure may be dependent on your eyes but ours is not the same. Our pleasure not depends on what we see but what we hear. So, talk nicely and meaningful.

Those are some points that comes into my mind so far. I'll try to add more later.